How does one succeed in life?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How did you cope when someone you love, dealing with hyper-independence and trauma, felt they needed space to heal alone? Were you able to support them without overstepping, and did you eventually reconnect? How did that journey unfold?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What is a good habit and what is bad one?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

What is the typical mentality of the Indian society?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Ask yourself:

How do I explain to my husband that my 19-year-old son has accidentally gotten me pregnant?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

I was awaken between 2-3am by a voice that said “Hey”. Literally right next to my ear. Sounded like a males voice, but it wasn’t stern or deep. What could this mean?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Why do trans people get so deeply offended when a stranger misgenders them, especially when it's a first encounter? I've been socially transitioned for 4 years and it just feels like a waste of energy to be so hurt by it.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Is it possible to become homeless after being released from jail or prison in the United States?

What I need from you?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Procrastinates a lot.

Is it possible for buyers to negotiate after an inspection if the appraisal is lower than expected?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

What is the scariest thing that ever happened in your life?

Does not procrastinate.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

How does a 45-year-old man get a girlfriend?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Do happily married husbands cheat?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

That's it for today.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Would you date a Muslim guy? Why/why not?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Why are some people afraid of monsters?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

How did you respond to, "Why do you love me"?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.